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  1. I have heard of some of these but going to look through the others. I have a 16yr old daughter who has autism and also struggles with mental health and anxiety issues and also gender confusion. It is SO hard to get the right support, I feel like 16 is such a hard age too as they don’t fit in a catagory, a lot of places sign off at 16 but then a lot start at 18. It has been a mega long road for us especially as I have bipolar and anxiety too.

    1. Oh gosh that must be so hard for you both. I remember when I was 16 I was discharged as a inpatient and my local CAMHS were like what do we do with a 16 year old, oh we don’t know send her to the adult mental health team and while I have no insight to CAMHS anymore if it’s anything like adults it has only gone downhill since then.

  2. I think sometimes social media sites can aid people feeling down. Posters give the illusion everything they do,say & feel is fabulous and it’s not everyone has crap days but never say things like that. I suffered depression when I was a lot younger you think you are the only one but you are not . And depression medication is not addictive now like it used to be. You feel you can never feel good in your life ever again but you do! Believe me get help you won’t regret it.

  3. The times that we live in, with the pressures from social media followed by the pandemic, must cause young people to feel so many expectations. Their mental health needs to be taken as seriously as their physical health.

    1. Definitely, I started with mental health issues very early in life and I cannot imagine what it would be like with the additional pressures of today.

  4. I used the NHS to help me with my mental health during the pandemic. I live in the borough of Greenwich so it was Greenwich Time to Talk who were supporting me. Even though I hated my sessions and bringing every sad thing I felt out into the open, looking back it was really nice to have someone to hear me out without any judgement. Don’t think I would have handled my depression very well without their support.

    1. I’m so glad you were able to find someone to help support you through the pandemic, access to mental health services can be hard to get and it is also hard to ask for that help.

  5. There is such need for this and it is so underfunded, it is frightening. Some good websites here for interim help.

    1. It scares me how much worse mental health care is getting, I thought it was bad 20+ years ago but now, I daren’t think of it.

  6. Thank you for a helpful and sensitively written post. Teenagers can be a problem though as they may be unlikely to read a post like this and concerned parents can only go so far in helping them.

  7. This is great! Thank you for sharing. It’s not easy to go to someone when I’m feeling down. Finding help on the web is easier sometimes

  8. Great post. Mental health is such a big issue for young people today and it can be very hard to find help and support when they need it.

    1. It makes me sad that there really hasn’t been much movement forward in mental health care since I was a child.

  9. Mental health and helping those that need it is very important, been in many situations where we could have used the help , so getting it out there that there is help is a fantastic thing to do

  10. Such a hidden problem in our society, young men and boys still think they cannot speak out about their mental health. My 21 year old son had a breakdown just over a year ago, transferred all his money into my bank account, texted me and said he was going to end it all then snook out of the house. After 6 harrowing hours, we found him, managed to bring him home & have worked with him and other professionals since. It’s changed him hugely and came down to his issue with decision making, (& a bullying employer!). I for one am grateful for the mental health support systems in place.

    1. I’m so glad you seem to have found a support system to help him – it seems like quite a postcode lottery in places on the available support.

  11. If you are ‘in the system’ and already known to suffer from depression (through GP assessment), your local health authority will usually have a small specialist team you can contact if having a mental health crisis. Worth exploring with your GP and making a note of the emergency number.

    1. Definitely – I know as part of my care plan as well the numbers are written into it, however, they do like you to try the samaritans first rather than them these days.

  12. An excellent post for parents. Thank you. I guess that most parents start either with the NHS or school when they feel their child would benefit from support but, even before lockdown, may have found themselves on a waiting list for the waiting list. Online resources are, therefore, invaluable.

  13. I am glad I came across this post, my 14 year old is really suffering at the moment, I have had to take her out of school and try to build up her confidence. I will take a look at these sites

    1. I am so sorry your daughter is struggling like this – I hope they help her out a little.

  14. This is such a helpful post.

    I know of several friends and family members who are suffering from depression. It affects more people than we think.

    1. It really does affect so many people and so many suffer in silence from it as well.

  15. what a fantastic post. My teen is struggling at the mo and having some sessions but we’ll take a look at these websites too.

    1. Oh no, I am so sorry to hear your teen is struggling I think the world must be so hard for younger people especially.

  16. This is such an interesting blog post. My granddaughter suffered with depression from the age of 16. Outwardly she was bubbly and the life and soul of the party but inwardly she was suffering.

    1. It is so easy to hide it – there isn’t a certain “look” for when you are struggling with your mental health and I Don’t think A lot of people realise that.

  17. I think the trouble is with Mental problems like Depression its not like a rash or similar when you can see the illness. I suffered from depression when my kiddies were young…And you hear the same old thing ‘ You have got to pull yourself together’ or ‘Only you can help yourself ‘ Wrong! You need to talk to someone .Teenagers exspecially worry anyway about how they look,I’m not getting good grades etc. I think during lockdown parents will be the first to notice, Off food,Aggressive .It’s good that people like yourself make us all more aware.

    1. Definitely it is so hard as people don’t seem to understand something they can’t see. So many times people say go for a run, or cheer up – none of it actually helps but people seem to think it does which is crazy.

    1. That is very true – not sure how they were missed, they are such a great charity, I might have to add them in.

    1. There are some wonderful resources out there, it is lovely to see so many for young people I think.

  18. Fantastic and well done to you for raising awareness about this subject. My daughter did struggle. Its hard enough being a teenager, but there was lots of other factors contributing to her mental health. I got support from her school and I cannot thank them enough.

    1. Teen years are so hard, I spent a year in the hospital with my mental health, I wouldn’t want to do those days again at all.

  19. This is so useful, thank you Sarah! I don’t anyone who hasn’t struggled so it is nice to know we are not alone even if it does feel like that at times x

  20. Well done for raising awareness! Some great support contacts, I know alot of young people are really struggling with mental health through this pandemic