A Look Into My Financial Mistakes (So You Don’t Repeat Them)
The last few years of the economy have seen many of us steering through difficult financial times. Whether we were prepared for it or not, it tested our resilience and financial acumen, often stretching our budgetary skills to the limits. But as the saying goes, “Difficult seas make for skilled sailors,” and charting through these rough financial waters has taught me valuable lessons about money.
For years, I underestimated the power of effective budgeting and used my credit resources carelessly. As a result, I had no insurance or savings for an emergency fund. I felt trapped in a financially challenging cycle that was both stressful and debilitating. I knew I had to tackle the elephant in the room and get my foundations right. It was hard work, but with a few changes and consistent money-saving habits, I was able to turn around my financial situation.
Ready for a few candid confessions? I’m writing this blog to share the mistakes I’ve made in my financial journey, including the lessons I’ve learnt from them. I hope this helps you navigate your own journey and pave the road to financial success.
Let’s dive in!
1. The Importance of Budgeting

A wise man once said that living beyond your means is the perfect recipe for financial debt. A budget counters that by helping you track your expenses effectively. This way, there are fewer chances of you exceeding your spending limit. I made a huge financial error in not budgeting and often used my hard-earned cash for frivolous things during my early years.
Despite earning decently at a full-time job, I was disappointed that I wasn’t able to save much. I naively thought that taking up a second gig would boost my savings. While it did increase my earned income, my expenses were still spiralling out of control. It took me a while to realise that it wasn’t my income that was the problem and that my situation had everything to do with my spending habits. I’d gotten my priorities all wrong.
I began budgeting out of necessity and desperation. Moreover, I wanted to be in control of my money rather than the other way around. I used an online budgeting app and strictly adhered to it. Before I knew it, this small step changed how I viewed my finances and spending patterns. Budgeting helped me prioritise spending on essentials and cut back on unnecessary expenses.
As a result, I saw a positive effect on my savings account and had a more streamlined way of managing my expenses. If you aren’t budgeting, start now and thank me later.
2. Emergency Fund – Your Personal Piggybank
Remember when we used to have piggy banks as kids to store away loose change and pocket money? I still recall the time I’d break into mine excitedly to buy something at Christmas or for someone’s birthday.
An emergency fund is much like that, an adult version of a piggy bank -something that we’d use to save for a rainy day. Emergency funds are supposed to be easily accessible because no one has the time to run around searching for suitable credit options when crunched for time and money.
However, I had realised the importance of having an emergency fund only when I faced an urgent expense myself. With my already poor financial habits, I was facing a major leak in my roof. Now stuck in a terrible situation, I searched high and low for credit options. I wondered how to get a bad credit payday loan and thankfully found a suitable lender.
Though a payday loan worked in my case, I wasn’t the kind of guy to do well under pressure and felt this was more of a last-resort option, one that I’d rather avoid in the future. This one experience led me to religiously budget for an emergency fund.
Experts agree that your emergency fund allocation should be 20% of your monthly budget or 3-6 months of essential expenses. Consider it your piggy bank for a rainy day.
3. Credit Cards- Not All That Glitters Is Gold
Credit cards can quickly become your nightmare and an Achilles heel if you don’t take your blindfolds off. While they come with a whole host of attractive perks and are convenient to use, you’d need to be careful to avoid their potential pitfalls.
I enjoyed them to the max until I realised their chameleon-like nature when it came to interest rates. The interest rates not only changed but over time had become much higher from the time I first started using them.
Credit cards were invented to avoid carrying huge lumpsum cash amounts in your pocket. While it is useful to that end, the ‘buy now, pay later’ scheme is often accompanied by hidden fees, transaction fees and high-interest charges.
I made the mistake of making minimum payments thinking they’d work for the time being. However, I quickly learned that these could easily snowball into bigger payments in no time and sneak up on you.
While credit cards can be nifty tools to manage your finances, it’s best to avoid delayed payments or making minimum payments. This way you can sidestep the potential pitfall of accumulating hidden fees and high interest charges.
4. The One-Basket Conundrum

Investments are speculative when it comes to stocks. I admit I didn’t have a thorough understanding of how it worked and decided to take the conservative approach when I first started out. Stocks seemed like an attractive investment opportunity. I didn’t waste much time investing in it. The impulsiveness combined with the lack of knowledge about the market led to my only stock investment taking a heavy loss.
I put all my eggs in one basket and failed. No surprises there. I understood it was important to diversify my investment portfolio to not only mitigate risks but also improve my financial stability.
You could have investments in different assets like real estate, stock, digital currency or even gold. Funds or bonds with investments in international markets are also a good idea. This way of investing can help you manage your financial risks and losses better.
5. Reviewing Regularly for Financial Success
I think effective budgeting really changed the way I looked at finances. However, it seemed just as important to review my budget and financials regularly to ensure I was still on track with my financial goals. With so many changes over the last few years with my career and personal goals, it seemed fitting to make adjustments accordingly.
As a first-time home buyer in a post-Brexit economy, it made sense to save more for my downpayment and take a personal loan. Reviewing my budget helped me assess where I could reduce my spending and see where I could save for my loan repayments. This readjustment in expenses has helped me plan better for my future.
Conclusion
I made a lot of rookie mistakes but also gathered financial prudence as a result. While it can be difficult to be upbeat about finances in a challenging economy, I also believe that with the right financial habits, you can dictate the success of your monetary strategy.
All you need to do is remain consistent and have patience. Soon you’ll also find that it’s entirely possible to improve your financial well-being by incorporating good financial habits and planning for your future.
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Thank you for being honest, I am exactly the same and have realised it is my spending that is out of control not how much I earn as I used to work 7 days a week and still have no money so I am really trying to take control of it all now. Great tips.
I have such impulse control issues with spending at times and then I spend the rest of time worrying about how I’m going to earn enough to cover them haha!