September 1 – Life in a Lockdown #22
Here we are it is Tuesday once again.
It seems to come around so quickly, yet take such a long time as well.
Last week I had an opticians visit, for the first time I’ve not needed to change my contacts. So I am hoping that means perhaps the CXL has slowed down the progression of my Keratoconus. They also think they might be able to get my slightly better vision in glasses so I can at least see a little more of the world when I can’t wear my contacts. It’s going to be expensive, but worth a try I think.
To kick off the post I must as always say a thank you to Bex at Futures for joining me each week and of course Jenni at Lyrical Host (affiliate link) for kickstarting the idea!
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1) How are you feeling/coping?
2) What have you been up to over the past 7 days?
3) What are your priorities at the moment, have you changed what you will / won’t go out for?
4) Have you found anywhere doing a really good job of catering to social distancing?
5) What have you bought this week that others might like? Especially if from a small business.
6) How has your routine been this week?
7) What have you learnt over lockdown (this doesn’t have to be a skill, it could be about yourself, your family, or something else).
8) What have you been grateful for over the past 7 days?

So what did week 22 hold:
1) How are you feeling/coping?
My fatigue is bad, at this point I feel like it going to be the theme of the year. 2020 = fatigue = bad.
I’m trying to work through the fact that I have realised I have never grieved for any loss. I was taught at some point to put things hard to deal with in a box (probably to deal with when I could cope). However, this changed to never. I basically disassociated with it all. So now I’m like how do I undo this tangled web?
I’ve ordered some simple books on grief, as I feel like it’s something I’ve learned the wrong way to cope with and need to start from 0. However, if anyone has any ideas I would love to know.
2) What have you been up to over the past 7 days?
Last week was basically all out due to DBT and opticians.
DBT knocks me out of energy for a couple of days and the opticians definitely took it out of me the next day.
It is hard when just simple things take all the energy you have to give.
3) What are your priorities at the moment, have you changed what you will / won’t go out for?
Pretty much the same as it has been. Only going out when we have to.
I’ve booked in our flu jab for this year – so we are in sooner rather than later.
4) Have you found anywhere doing a really good job of catering to social distancing?
I was actually surprised by how well the opticians were managing.
You could only get in when someone opened the door for you, lots of sanitiser, everyone in masks and everything cleaned between uses.
5) What have you bought this week that others might like? Especially if from a small business.
I’ve spoken a lot about how my anxiety has been really bad.
I bought this lava stone wrap around bracelet from The Scented Owl.

Lava Stone is naturally quite porous, so it works well for adding lavender oil too.
As I find lavender a relaxing scent I thought it would be interesting to try this bracelet and see if carrying it with me helped me relax as and when needed.
It cost £8.99 and to be honest even if the scent doesn’t help – it is a really pretty bracelet.
6) How has your routine been this week?
Yeah it’s been OK – I mean we don’t have much of a daily routine what with the fact I work from home.
However, I am trying to make sure I always at least head off to bed around the same time each night.
7) What have you learnt over lockdown (this doesn’t have to be a skill, it could be about yourself, your family, or something else).
I can’t think of anything to add this week to what I have said before.
I guess perhaps I am a little more social than I thought I was, as I do miss seeing more people.
8) What have you been grateful for over the past 7 days?
The fact I have people around me who support and care for me.
When I feel like I am falling somewhere is there to help.

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It’s good that you have talked about grief, it is a topic that people tend to avoid as it is so uncomfortable
Definitely I’m still struggling with the fact it is something I have avoided for so long and I don’t know how to change that.
I can relate to the fatigue it really gets me both mentally and physically that’s with suffering Generalised Anxiety Disorder has been a nightmare. My daughter was diagnosed with a malignant melanoma in her arm and that put the cap on it for me. She’s had an operation and thankfully her lymph nodes is ok. Still not been able to hug my grandson and I’m so tired of the lockdown. I find myself breathless and my digestive system.is upset. I think so many people are being affected with mental issues . I won’t see my gp because when I go they never find anything physically wrong it’s all due to anxiety . Hope you keep as well as you can and have a better week coming. Loving your finds and I do like the bracelet x
Oh my goodness I am so sorry about your daughter – I am glad the lymph nodes are OK.
It’s just such a horrid world right now isn’t it?
Great to hear about the Optician, it’s always good to cross a task of a list isn’t it? We’re so far behind with everything we need to get done.
I love the bracelet too.
I hope you have an easier week next week x
I feel like once this is all over we will all be running on catch up for a long time to come.
It sounds as though you’ve had a tough week. Routines are hard to get into. I am struggling and been back to school for a few weeks. x
I bet getting used to the school routine is going to be hard for so many.
Love the bracelet, and the idea of putting lavender in it. My husband had his eyes tested last week, and said how organised it was…..which reminds me, need to order some glasses
Good luck with ordering the glasses! Always so expensive isn’t it?
Wow. Who would have thought things would still be weird at 22 weeks. I don’t think there’s anyone escaped without it adversely effecting them. Let’s hope normal is back sooner rather than later.
It’s crazy isn’t it, I thought it would all be over in a few weeks but nope here we are, still dealing with the “new” normal.
This past week has been taken up with us getting ready for school. Luckily everything went well yesterday
I’m so glad everything went well for you with going back to school. I bet it has been so different for kids!
That bracelet is nice. Even if it doesn’t have smell at all. Nice article.
Thank you it is a lovely bracelet and it smells amazing when you add in the oil.
Really sorry you’re struggling with fatigue-it’s an absolute killer for me too!
This year has been the worst for it – so many people seem to be struggling.