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  1. I agree with this. I have seen so many people (colleague, friend and relatives) who were able to use music as their outlet. I myself, makes music as one of my stress reliever. Also my cousins kid who has an attention disorder used music as her medicine.

  2. I had never played a musical instrument but I do agree that music in general can help childhood anxiety. I used to do musical theatre productions, where I would sing, act and dance and even though I was not comfortable with attention I did find that it did help me feel more confident and in control. I can imagine it being the same with musical instruments as well.

    1. I’m not one for attention I have to admit I loved being part of a musical though, I would feel so alive on stage.

  3. I haven’t thought of it like this, but it is true. When I was little my mum signed me up for piano classes and I carried on for 4 years. It helped me a lot to concentrate and even perform in front of a public.

  4. What I would add is that the child has to want to learn the instrument… I was forced into playing the piano for over 10 years and did not enjoy it. Looking back now, I’m quite thankful I had the opportunity to learn an instrument thoroughly but at the time it probably had the opposite effect on childhood anxiety.

  5. This is a fab post. My partners mum used to say music makes you happy and it is so true. My 2 year old loves singing and plays around with various instruments so I will definitely be encouraging this as he grows older x

  6. This is so interesting. I’m familiar with art therapy but not so much learning an instrument. I suppose I hadn’t considered it because I always found my own music lessons so stressful ?

  7. Great post – I think music is fundamental to good mental health and low stress living. And I think that’s true whatever your age, although giving a child the gift of music is one of the best gifts you can give them. I absolutely agree that learning an instrument with a child is an amazing way to bond and share a journey.

    1. I think there is something wonderful I’m not sure I could still play but I’m glad I did get to learn.

  8. I have to admit even musical instruments have helped me with my anxiety. Nothing beats picking up the guitar and having a little sing along if a stressful/rough day! Does wonders for the soul.

    Violet

  9. Thank you for this post. It made me remember when I was a child, I always wanted to learn to play the guitar, just like my older brother. However, my parents told me that “guitars are for boys.” So they made me take piano lessons instead. I did not like it one bit, but what can a 6 year old do? That gave me anxiety and piano recitals made me so nervous. I learned a lot from that and I did not force any of my children to pick up a musical instrument unless they explicitly asked.

    1. I always wanted to play the piano, but they ran out of room so I ended up playing the violin instead and keep it up for many years, only stopped really when I went into hospital. Later learned the guitar for a while but not as much as I did the violin, music definitely is therapeutic.

  10. I absolutely agree that children with emotional needs shouldn’t be forced and I am so glad to hear that there are places with professional tutors who offer the service to such children

    1. It is great isn’t it – I used to love art therapy when I was allowed to just get on and show my feelings how I wanted. It was the only type that worked for me.

  11. I guess my thought is maybe it can help with anxiety unless they are being forced into lessons or have trouble learning, then there’s that anxiety.

  12. My son started playing the sax a couple of years ago and it’s been great for him. My strategy was starting my blog.

    1. Definitely as I’ve got older it’s been different things that have helped me, now it is my blog.

  13. I took piano and dance lessons as a child and loved every minute. My kids also take piano and I think it’s great for them to establish good habits with practicing.

  14. I learned the piano as a kid and it was such a wonderful experience. Now my daughters are interested in it too. I might sign them up for classes.

  15. although i am not inclined to music, i remember my brother going thru psychological problems and my sister bought him a guitar. That helped him recover fast

    1. I think it wouldn’t work for everyone as everyone is different, but for some it definitely does.

  16. This depends on the child. It helped my daughter tremendously, whenever she is nervous, she go to our piano and play and her stress goes away. It’s a different story with our son, however, he love to sing and that’s how he manages stress as well.

    1. I think some sort of art be is an instrument, singing, drawing, painting, writing there is something that will help in some form.

  17. Some interesting stuff to think about here. My son has been wanting to take guitar lessons and I’ve always wanted to learn but never have. Been thinking of having us take lessons together. This post has provides some extra incentive to consider doing that.

  18. Wow how interesting is this. Music as medicine. The James Hudziak research replace medication with violin play is food for thought x

  19. This is very interesting and something I will bear in mind. I would even say that learning a sport can help too – maybe it is the learning process. Jack sometimes gets a little anxious but since he started football training and golf lessons, the anxiety seems to have all but disappeared.

  20. I always knew that music lifted and helps improve your mood but I never understood the science behind it until now. I loved learning piano and guitar as a teenager as it really helped me and I would want my daughter to learn a instrument not only as a skill to have but so she can feel happy as well.

    1. It is something so uplifting isn’t it I think as long as there is no pressure as the only time I hated it was when I was taking my certificates yuck!

  21. Learning a musical instrument is such a great thing to do at any age, I think. I had no idea it helps with childhood anxiety though – that’s really good to know!

    1. Piano was the one I would have loved, but all the classes were very quickly filled up at my primary school so I took up violin instead.

  22. I have always known there was a benefit to kids playing a musical instrument but I never knew there was so much! My daughter plays the viola and my son plays the acoustic guitar, they love them so much! My youngest bangs on drums but does not take it seriously, he just likes to make noise. 🙂

    1. Haha there is something about the noise of drums though 😉 perhaps one day he may take it more seriously you never know.

  23. I think learning an instrument is such a good way of escaping as music is such a great thing. I learnt the clarinet when I was younger and if I had the time I’d definitely learn to play the guitar x

  24. I had no idea this helps with childhood anxiety. I need to recommend this to a friend, I think her own could benefit from guitar lessons.

  25. Great post Sarah….did you know music also is very helpful when it comes to dementia and Alzheimer’s patients as well? I know first hand that it works,I put on music for my mother-in-law and helped settle her down. I always have music on when I’m writing my blog…good music is good medicine.

    1. Oh now in some ways that doesn’t surprise me at all – music is something that can really bring forth emotions.

  26. I had no idea that instruments could help with anxiety!! I would have totally had my oldest daughter take lessons.

    1. It is amazing the different things that can help some people – of course it doesn’t work for all.

    1. Most definitely – perhaps I’ll get around to taking one up again some day 🙂 Not sure I could stand to play the violin now though.

  27. I would agree that music can change one’s mood. I love listening to music and I have recently bought my 1 year old grandson several musical instrument toys. He loves them! It’s great that music and learning to play an instrument, can help with anxiety and ADHD

    1. Aww I bet it is so cute watching him play with them as well – wonder if he will grow up to play one.

  28. Non of our children was interested in learning how to play any kind of instrument. Really wish they had. I always wanted to play the piano.

    1. I guess it isn’t the right thing for everyone – I used to love singing as well though I’m not very good haha!

  29. My son’s school requires them to learn an instrument. I’m gonna let him choose what you want but if it was up to me it would be the trumpet because I played that. I think it’s a wonderful idea for kids to learn about music.

    1. Oh wow that is amazing, my primary school only had a few slots for every year, I remember sitting with all the people who wanted to play the violin as I had missed out on the piano and we had to go through all sorts of tests, I remember she ruled out some people as they weren’t double joined in their fingers?! It was very odd looking back on it now lol.

  30. I took piano as a kid and enjoyed it when I was small and hated it as a teenager.

    My daughter is currently taking violin and seems to enjoy it!

    1. I played the violin as well – lovely once you get the sound right though I would make it sound awful on occasion to annoy my parents.

  31. What a great post, musical instruments are great for children to learn, although I have to admit I wanted to run and hide when my daughter brought home a recorder. She did have music lessons but gave them up when she changed schools. My Granddaughter is off to a good start at 1 month old already has a baby drum 🙂