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  1. I agree with this. I have seen so many people (colleague, friend and relatives) who were able to use music as their outlet. I myself, makes music as one of my stress reliever. Also my cousins kid who has an attention disorder used music as her medicine.

  2. I had never played a musical instrument but I do agree that music in general can help childhood anxiety. I used to do musical theatre productions, where I would sing, act and dance and even though I was not comfortable with attention I did find that it did help me feel more confident and in control. I can imagine it being the same with musical instruments as well.

    1. I’m not one for attention I have to admit I loved being part of a musical though, I would feel so alive on stage.

  3. I haven’t thought of it like this, but it is true. When I was little my mum signed me up for piano classes and I carried on for 4 years. It helped me a lot to concentrate and even perform in front of a public.

  4. What I would add is that the child has to want to learn the instrument… I was forced into playing the piano for over 10 years and did not enjoy it. Looking back now, I’m quite thankful I had the opportunity to learn an instrument thoroughly but at the time it probably had the opposite effect on childhood anxiety.

  5. This is a fab post. My partners mum used to say music makes you happy and it is so true. My 2 year old loves singing and plays around with various instruments so I will definitely be encouraging this as he grows older x

  6. This is so interesting. I’m familiar with art therapy but not so much learning an instrument. I suppose I hadn’t considered it because I always found my own music lessons so stressful ?

  7. Great post – I think music is fundamental to good mental health and low stress living. And I think that’s true whatever your age, although giving a child the gift of music is one of the best gifts you can give them. I absolutely agree that learning an instrument with a child is an amazing way to bond and share a journey.

    1. I think there is something wonderful I’m not sure I could still play but I’m glad I did get to learn.

  8. I have to admit even musical instruments have helped me with my anxiety. Nothing beats picking up the guitar and having a little sing along if a stressful/rough day! Does wonders for the soul.

    Violet

  9. Thank you for this post. It made me remember when I was a child, I always wanted to learn to play the guitar, just like my older brother. However, my parents told me that “guitars are for boys.” So they made me take piano lessons instead. I did not like it one bit, but what can a 6 year old do? That gave me anxiety and piano recitals made me so nervous. I learned a lot from that and I did not force any of my children to pick up a musical instrument unless they explicitly asked.

    1. I always wanted to play the piano, but they ran out of room so I ended up playing the violin instead and keep it up for many years, only stopped really when I went into hospital. Later learned the guitar for a while but not as much as I did the violin, music definitely is therapeutic.

  10. I absolutely agree that children with emotional needs shouldn’t be forced and I am so glad to hear that there are places with professional tutors who offer the service to such children

    1. It is great isn’t it – I used to love art therapy when I was allowed to just get on and show my feelings how I wanted. It was the only type that worked for me.

  11. I guess my thought is maybe it can help with anxiety unless they are being forced into lessons or have trouble learning, then there’s that anxiety.